Secure your spot.

A $500 non-refundable deposit is required to secure your spot once accepted.

To support accessibility, 3, 4, and 6-month payment plans are available.

All payments must be completed according to the selected plan. Payments are non-refundable once submitted.

Please note: Kajabi labels this as a "30-day trial", but this simply means your monthly payment plan begins 30 days after your initial deposit is submitted. 

Belonging Without Performing is a healing space created for Black Queer Men who are craving meaningful connection, emotional rest, and brotherhood without performance.

This isn't a party weekend. 
It's a substance-free, intentional space rooted in care, safety, and respect for everyone present.

For many of us, things like sex or substances have been ways to navigate connection or ease discomfort. There's no judgment in that. 

This space simply invites something different. A chance to experience connection without pressure, without expectation, and without needing anything external to feel comfortable being here. 

 Expect depth, softness, laughter, and community without pressure. 

Cancellation Policy (Summary)

Deposits are non-refundable.

If you need to cancel:

• 120+ days before the retreat: full refund minus deposit

• 90–119 days before: 50% refund minus deposit

• Within 90 days, payments are non-refundable.

All payment plans follow the same policy.

Full details can be found in the FAQ.